How can I go to Abu Dhabi w/out relatives and employer?

Hello everyone!

hope you can answer my question.The question is i have my Girlfriend in abu dhabi her contract of employment there is 2 years.
she is married in phillipines before she work in the said country as of now her last name is the last name of her exhusband.but we are 7 years
as a boyfriend and girlfriend.She wants me to go also in the country where she is as of now but what should i do in order to go to that said country im planning also to have a work in there.

hopefully anyone can answer me this question.

thank you in advance.